Communication

The last four years have been the most intense in my life in the sense of closing and opening circles: I released my previous life in the center of the country and my marriage, moved to Mitzpeh Ramon, created personal relationships and working connections in many frameworks in the community, I left all the places of work, bought a house and established the ‘Observation Space’ where I guided, taught and treated with tools from the worlds of music and mysticism. Two and a half years later I sold the house and most of its contents, I ordered and planned a caravan to be used as a residence, I built a model for a workshop product in the fields of music and mysticism which I can implement when I will live in the caravan and other occurrences while ….

When I look at this intensely today I see that what guided me in it, more than anything else, was the quality of communication between me and the surroundings… As the quality of communication with each person, factor or establishment with whom I conducted a personal, creative and professional dialogue was higher, That way I could have been longer in the circle where it took place …

In my experience, when the communication is natural, simple and open, it enables sequence, continuity, movement and growth, and when it is not, it is stuck, blocked and dissipated …

Communication may be blocked in the first stage when a person does not allow the information directed to him in any way – words, message, look, body language, emotional expression, touch – to enter and internalize it. In my feeling, the reasons for this arise in many cases out of fear of various kinds, from the difficulty of containing and perhaps also the fear of taking responsibility for this information and acting in its wake …

If the information penetrates and is assimilated, it may still be blocked in the second stage if there is no Response, responsiveness, reference in the repeated communication … This blockage may be created for the simple reason of not being available and also again, in my feeling, of fear – the fear of being To be not precise, misunderstood, not clever and not interesting, not to respond ‘correctly’ and perhaps even to the simple fear of ‘making a voice,’ which may lead to an act … because make a voice and the act of doing can reverberate ourselves (a situation in which there is no ‘way back’ or ‘escape hatches’) and provoke a reaction from the world again, so that the movement will continue and we will be more exposed …

I believe that being more exposed means being more sensitive to ourselves and to each other, and at the same time stronger, and therefore are even more daring to communicate from this exposed, sensitive place without being hurt …

In my eyes, only communication that is similar to a ‘ping-pong’ game that has no winners or losers, may create strong, meaningful, empowering and comforting relationships …